Saturday, October 31, 2009

Korean Halloween!

Well, it was a little rainy here for Halloween, but that didn't stop the fun! The festivities started with a potluck soup dinner at a neighbors, before the official trick-or-treat hours. Rowan was aghast that there was trick or treating only from 5-8:30, but that's life on a military base!

Gryphon was a werewolf this year, but the mask smelled yucky so she rarely wore it. Yes, its a sad milestone: she was NOT Harry Potter!
Rowan was a southern belle. She had admired the costume last year but they didn't have her size, so this year we ordered it online. Of course, she had to have a wig.







Gryphon went trick or treating alone with her friend Sidney, which was another big milestone. Sniff, sniff, my baby is growing up so fast! Then they went to a Halloween party before coming back here for a sleepover and to divide up the loot.







Mark and I traded off passing out candy to the hundreds of kids who came around (seriously, more than I have seen anywhere, ever!!) and taking Rowan and various other little girls around the neighborhoods. Amazingly, Rowan decided she was done at around 7 and she and 2 friends came back and handed out candy. Yes, she is actually not feeling good, because that is really weird for her!
It was a good Halloween, one of the funnest parts was meeting so many Korean kids who were trick or treating for the first time. Its nice to live on post and still have that little slice of America, especially on holidays!
Happy Halloween!!

Monday, October 12, 2009

And now for something different...

Instead of the usual pictures+text format, I have put in some videos. Our video camera has been inoperable due to a lost power cord, but it's back in business, so look forward to lots of really boring videos with nausea-inducing camera angles!Rowan's buddy Bella came along with us.

We drove up to Bukhansan National park, to see the fall colors and do a little hiking. Unfortunately, we are 0 for 2 trips to this park, as we once again failed to get to the top. This time, the culprit was not taking a trail that was too hard, last time's trail involved ropes and sheer rock faces, which I am NOT okay with! No, we were sunk by the yummy lunch of Oritang, duck soup. It took along time to eat, and we didn't have time to get to the top. video

The lunch was so good though-!!

We did have time to see 3 temples on the mountain, which was nice. The colors are not yet at their peak, so we will take another trip in a few weeks.

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Monday, September 28, 2009

A weekend trip, weirdness and waterfalls


Saturday morning, the girls and I packed up the van and headed to Jaechon, in the mid-eastern part of the country, for a gymnastics meet. Jaechon is around 2 hours out of Seoul, through winding roads and mountains.


It is a small town, very rural, with golden rice fields and apple orchards. The girls loved getting out of the city, and seeing the terraced tiny villages and traditional homes.



We got to Jaechon early, in order to do some sightseeing at an ancient resorvoir called Eurimji.

There was a small, sort of frighteningly dilapidated amusement park outside it called Eurimji Land, so of course we had to go. I veto'd anything larger than the mini-coaster.

Eurimji's main attraction was the waterfall, both a man-made one (seen here behind the girls) and a natural one, that was huge and flowed down a gorge behind the resorvoir.
All around the resorvoir were pagodas, and picnic areas, and restaurants. The pine trees here are some of the oldest in Korea.
We also solved the mystery of what the strange looking orange fruits are we see here. There are some growing on trees near our house, but they don't seem edible. Turns out, you just suck the juice out, not really eat it. Its called "kam" in Korean, in english...totally clueless. Never seen one. They are good though!

Then we went to Taechon College for a practice before the meet the next day, and out to dinner with the other gymnasts and moms that our coach teaches. In many ways, it is like being in the US and going to a meet in another state for the weekend, which we did many times. But it is also very, very different! For one thing, after dinner, the kids went alone back to the hotel (due to lower crime and a willingness to watch out for other people's kids, Korean children have a lot more freedom!) and the other 2 moms and I stayed at the restaurant and had beer! I don't remember that ever happening in the US. :) The hotel was filled with little rhythmic girls, just like in the US, but they were all Korean and the hotel lacked a pool but had house slippers available in your room.


Just like in the US, we all went to eat a good breakfast before going to the meet. Only, Koreans don't have "breakfast" food. Its just food. Winner of The Weekend's Most Unpleasant Experience Award goes to...

...kimchi for breakfast. You all know I love kimchi, and Korean food. I would eat it every day, and often do. But for BREAKFAST?! Even I can't get behind that. Rowan ate a few bites of rice, but even though she loves rice couldn't get behind that for breakfast, either. Only Gryphon really chowed down on her stew, rice and kimchi! Did I mention it was 9 am?! The restaurant was full of gymnasts from all over, it was cute- so like the meets in the US, yet so different!
Then we went to the meet, which was hopelessly behind schedule. Shin Soo Ji, Korea's Beijing Olympian was there, as were all the top level gymnasts, and basically every gymnast in the entire country. And they allllllllllllllll know Rowan. Its a lot of pressure for an 8 year old, when the entire arena stops what they are doing when the loudspeaker announces her name. Everyone is very nice and very complementary, but I know Rowan would much rather just blend in. That isn't going to happen, so I guess it's good they think she is doing a good job, and isn't terrible!




I did Rowan's makeup, but it was unsatisfactory, and Kim SungSaengNim trowled on a whole bunch more. There was a huge gap between the time she went on for hoop, and freehands, and her coach was judging so another woman was coaching her in the back. In the weekend's most surreal moment, Shin Soo Ji, Korea's #2 gymnast Lee Kang Hwa, and Korea's #1 junior (and the hands-down most gorgeous gymnast I ever saw, we call her Beautiful Feet Girl) were all gathered around giving her pointers as she practiced. That certainly doesn't happen for most Grade 2 competitors! (I have no idea how Korean school works, but 2001 is School Year 2 at these meets. I had to explain that Rowan is not extra-smart or anything, just that all 8 year olds would be in 3rd grade in the US!)


Rowan had a hiccup in hoop, but still got second. Her freehands routine was the most incredible routine I ever saw her do- just perfect. She even got an almost perfect score- 2/10th of a point from the maximum! That was probably excessive, but it was really an amazing routine. So she was happy, and her coach was sort of happy (RG coaches are never happy) and that was good.
The meet didn't finish until 8 that night, so we drove to Tanyang and went immediately to find a place to stay. I wanted a traditional type place, but it was dark and raining so the best I could od was an ondol room in a regular hotel. The girls were tickled to sleep on the heated floor, though the next morning Rowan said it hurt her head.
The next morning we got up and drovei nto Tanyang proper, to find some breakfast. Tanyang is a little town, set next to the South Han River and nestled between mountains. I took this lady's picture, wish I could do that! We were about to give up finding anything "western", and go eat kalbi (ribs) for breakfast in despair, when we were saved by...
Paris Baguette!! Thank goodness for Paris Baguette. Coffee and rolls!! No kimchi!! The girls (and I) were very happy for that. Next trip we will bring breakfast foods with us, I had forgotten the "there is no breakfast" thing, and I just cannot overestimate how yucky stew and kimchi are at 9 am.
Fueled up with yummy goodness, we were able to get to our planned destination, Gosu cave. I bought one of those fabulous bandanna maps of the region outside, at a store selling mountain herbs and souvenirs. Gosu cave is really impressive- beautiful rock formations, we even saw a glowing worm type bug!
However, Rowan decided that she is not a fan of enclosed spaces. And then the metal pathway started climbing up a big shaft, and as it got higher, she got quieter. I knew she didn't like high places, and pretty soon, she was done and not going any higher! Gryphon climbed up herself but the cave continued a long, long ways that we didn't get to see. Hopefully we can go back with Mark sometime. Next we drove to the river, where these 3 beautiful rocks come out. It was very scenic, and hoem of 2 of the "8 Scenic wonders of Tanyang".

We didn't take a boat ride, but see the pagoda on top of the hill? We climbed up there for scenic view #2, a natural stone bridge, on the other side of that hill. There was much wailing and gnashing of teeth when the girls saw the looonngggg staircase up the hill.
The view was gorgeous from the top, though, so that helped. Tanyang is very rugged, and the weather was foggy and cloudy, and the streamers of clouds trailing over the mountains was just lovely.

There was also one of those traditional Korean swings where you stand up and get really high in the area. Here I am (not so high) on it!Gryphon and I wanted San Jae Bibimbap, mountain vegetables mixed with rice (and spicy red pepper paste) for lunch. Rowan had eaten nothing but rice all weekend, because she isn't real into Korean food (or any food, for that matter). I was feeling sort of bad for her- all that excercise and no food! But hunger (or malnutrition) must have got the best of her, because she said the DwaengJongchigae (a not-spicy tofu and veggie stew that comes as a side dish) smelled good and actually ate some!! Gryphon told me to quickly get a photo of her eating *something* besides rice!!
After lunch it was back to the big city. I tokk a photo of the rest area- Korea has great rest stops on the major highways. Tons of food, a park, great big clean bathrooms. The funny thing is, nothign is very far away! In the US, we sometimes drove to Syracuse or Indiana for meets, almost 12 hours away. Here, even Pusan at the southern tip of the country is only 6-8 hours. But even if you don't *need* to rest much, the rest areas are still pretty cool!


Plus, you can get walnut cakes, which actually have nothing to do with walnuts except the shape. They are doughy fried walnut shaped things with purple bean paste inside. I am not describing them well- they are very tasty!!
And that's the play-by-play of our weekend getaway, complete with photos!

Friday, September 04, 2009

Not-back to school day, and first day photos!

Can you believe it is 6th and 3rd grade, already??? School started here August 31st, and I *had* planned to do something fun for "not back to school" day. But, Gryphon is taking Korean and music at the middle school, and though she goes only a few times a week, she had to go on the first day. So we just waited until she got home.
We grabbed Mark, who was off, and went to Seoul Children's Park, a big complex with an amusement park, zoo, many playgrounds, water stuff and trails.
The playgrounds were nice, and they play classical music at them.
We started at the zoo, which is pretty old so the enclosures are small, and sort of sad. The kids were amazed (ok, we were ALL amazed) to see animal food vending machines! I have never been to a zoo where you could feed the animals, it is normally strictly forbidden.We bought bear food, because I recognized what animal it was for. I am not real up on my zoo animal names, and didn't want to feed the wrong food to the wrong animal! So since I knew bear for sure, bear it was.The girls tossed it in to some extremely depressed looking Sun Bears, but they didn't pay it any attention. It was a very strange zoo!After the zoo we wandered around a while, this is an arbor of gourds. I have seen grape arbors, but never gourd arbors!Kids waded in the streams and fountains, while Mark and I had some snacks. All the snack stands sell beer here, which is another strange thing to me. Mothers sitting at the park with their kids, drinking beer. Gryphon's feet in the stream, it was a lovely not-too-hot day.One of the things I wanted to find was the "barefoot park", where you take your shoes off, walk barefoot and feel different textures. I was imagining something tactile, sort of for kids, since its in the playground area. The sign says to do it for 10 minutes every day and its healthy for you.Cool, right?Uhh...not so much. See those jagged rocks? The pointy wood? IT HURTS! I didn't last 2 minutes, let alone 10! The girls gamely took their shoes off to try, but put them right back on. Mark took one look and said no way. My feet, not really feeling any healthier, just very sore!I snapped a photo of this guy, who is on a bench in the middle of the barefoot park.I think he has the right idea on how to use the park- leave your shoes on, and nap! Much healthier!

More mountain climbing!



We went to Mt. Soyosan up north near where Mark and I were stationed a million years ago this past weekend. Of course, there was eating involved- can't climb a mountain without eating first! The mountain is as beautiful as I remember, but much mroe built up. There is a village of restaurants now inside the parks borders, along the streams.

We hiked up to a spot I dearly wanted to return to and photograph, but...it was very much changed. And not for the better. What was 13 years ago a cave temple, carved out of rock, with only hundreds of candles for light, was now a big complex. And worst of all, the cave temple was ruined with doors, FLOURESCENT lights, and a proper (non stone) floor. I am so sad to see these "improvements"! A bright spot was seeing adorable cats running, sleeping and playing on the temple roofs, I guess they are temple cats.

The girls enjoyed this mountain trip much more than Tobongsan, because we just wandered up easy stairs and trails, no hanging on ropes or climbing rock faces this time!

Friday, August 07, 2009

Kimpo Rhythmic Gymnastics Meet


Rowan had her first meet this week, out at Kimpo, near Inchon, Korea. It was a HUGE meet, a full day of school kids from preschool to 8th grade, then groups, then FIG seniors and juniors, along with the national Korea group doing 2 routines for exhibition.

I was sooo nervous for Rowan, I can only imagine how she felt! Mark was able to come, though the taxi he took got into an accident on the way! The, coaches all judge, they have a ton of judges, and the girls warm up by themselves. Poor Rowan looked like a deer in the headlights, wandering around the warm up area not really practicing or stretching, just staring. It was pretty overwhelming! She did freehands first, and the crowd was really cool- they loved her! *EVERYONE* knows who she is, because we practice at a high school with the strongest RG program in the country, and the national team coach is sometimes there, and lots of really high level girls. So word gets around- RG is pretty small in Korea, anyway, compared to the US. But the girls that they *do* have are much better, they train at school, and with private ballet coaches and RG coaches. They have what have to be $1000 leotards, seriously.

Rowan did great, didn't forget her routines (a concern, because they changed up unti lthe DAY BEFORE the meet!!) and was more snappy and polished than the girls in her school year category (grade 2). She got 1st in hoop and ball, and 3rd in freehands. Unfortunately, I am pretty sure she doesn't really get the 1st place award, because she is a non-citizen. That's okay though, the US used to have a rule like that too, and she knows she got the most points, even if she can't get first. She doesn't really do it for awards anyway, she does it for...well, I have no idea. She just loves it!

It was neat to hear them call her name- Row-in Bo-Duh-Ry. There wasn't room on the form for the meet to put her whole name, even in Hangul, so that's what she ended up with. All the moms and other team mates have a set cheer they chant- they say the gymnast's name, clap three times, and say "Hal Ti" which is like "you can do it". Adorable!

The second day we got out there at 7 am and Yuna's mom did everyone's hair. Poor Rowan's hair- it got so broken off and damaged! Her hair is much more delicate than the other girls. The coach, Kim Sung Saeng Nim (that means teacher), did their make up. Rowan looked a lot more like the other girls when she was done! They were the first of 6 freehands groups to go on, and the girls were hilarious watching the other routines. They cheered whenever a group messed up, and when the scores were posted and they were still in first. Unfortunately, Kimpo Elementary has a school club with wicked good girls (in very expensive leotards I don't think the moms had to sew!!) and they beat the GS Square girls. Still, 2nd is pretty good! (I think there is a possibility they won't actually receive 2nd though, due to Rowan. I just don't know how that works. I will feel terrible if that is so, but I know her coach knew ahead of time as she is an FIG level judge and obviously is well versed on the rules.)

Then we stayed to watch Korean 2008 Olympian Shin Soo Ji, and the other senior FIG girls. They were awesome! All in all, a very unique and exciting experience. I am so glad Rowan is involved with RG and we have had the opportunity to experience this type of thing.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

And just to demonstrate how she really IS not like the others...

...I asked her coach if she really, truly was the ONLY waygookin (non-Korean) doing RG.

And her coach looked surprised. And said, "Of course. "

And I said "Really? Are you sure??"

And Kim Sung Saeng Nim looked at me like I was crazy for doubting her and said "Oh yes, I'm sure. Only one. Rowan."

Woah.

So I guess the fact that I get that Sesame Street song, "One of these kids is not like the other" stuck in my head whenever we go to practice (especially group!) is not an exaggeration.

She's the only one.

That's sort of heavy for an 8 year old. The meet is going to be a veritable circus, I am thinking. It's huge, anyway- they televise it (not low level girls, like Rowan), it's the whole country, it's days long. And I have a feeling everyone who is present when Rowan goes on the floor is going to stop what they are doing to watch her. Poor kid! Like it isn't nerve wracking enough to have to get in a tight sparkly leotard, do contortion to music and catch things for points, now she has the added bonus of having the "freak factor".

Sing it with me- "One of these kids is doin his own thing...one of these kids is not the same..."
In case you forgot the words: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sm-zWDaoCtI&feature=related

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

One of these kids is not like the other...

We found a coach here in Seoul, through much luck and a lot of work. Her name is Kim Ra-Won, and she is lovely! Well, a bit barbaric with the stretching, but that's just how it is here. I'll bet you never thought Rowan was inflexible, right? Well, she is here!


3 days a week we drive to Gangnam, to practice in a high school gym. There are other coaches with their girls there, too, but it is all private coaching. Our coach has other girls, but we see them only in passing. Korean gymnasts are REALLY good. Scary flexible. Not as polished maybe as the US girls, so Rowan has that going for her, but they are very, very good! She only practices about 1-2 hours alone, 3 days a week, and until recently it was all the coach figuring out what she could do and making her routines fit Korean rules. There is a meet on August 6-7th, and now Rowan is practicing her finalized routines. After that it will go to more skill learning, Rowan will have ribbon next year and is excited for that!


On Sundays we drive to Ansan, south of Seoul, for group. Her coach has a group of girls in Ansan who practice just one day a week, for 5 hours. They do individual routines and a group routine. They needed a 6th girl, so Rowan is doing it. It is a cute routine, but boy does Rowan stick out! According to the coach, Rowan is the only foreign girl doing RG on the peninsula. So we are REALLY strange. She will compete with the group at the August meet, too.
WHile Rowan practices in Ansan, the moms sit outside and eat and talk. And eat. And eat. I swear, I don't know how Koreans don't all weigh 900 pounds- they eat SO much!! My head hurts after practice- 5 hours of Korean chit chat is tough! At the last practice (there have only been 3) we started sewing sequins on leotards for the group, in addition to the eating and talking. I am not much of a sewer, but am getting the hang of it!




I don't know why this blurry- I guess my camera setting were all screwed up. Too bad- these are the group girls and the 2 little girls also practice in Ansan though they don't do the group. They range in age from 6 (littlest) to 10. They are very nice and it has been amazing watching Rowan learn a routine in a language she doesn't speak!Its been surprisingly easy.




Rowan and Eunji, who is 6 (7 in Korea). This little girl is SO amazingly hard working! She just practices non-stop the whole 5 hours. She takes her RG very seriously! It is adorable to watch.
Rowan is enjoying it very much here, even though it is really different. I think its going to be an amazing experience for her. She is really brave to take on so much at so young, I am very proud of her. I wouldn't be caught dead getting stretched like that- I would have punched the coach and quit the first day! But she has a really serious drive to do this, so we'll just let her go as far as she can, until it isn't fun any more!